Friends of mine just gave birth to their first baby. Like generations before them, this couple has carefully planned and prepared for this child. The nursery was painted, tiny clothes were lovingly folded and hung, and a meaningful name was selected. They attended childbirth classes, read all the books, consulted all the experts. No couple has ever been better prepared.
Their beautiful boy decided to surprise them by joining the world six weeks earlier than his anticipated arrival. In celebration of this event, this Momma-G post is kind of an open letter:
Dear B & N,
As you well know, you have been catapulted down the road of parenthood. Not for the weak of heart, this path is full of bumps, hills, and unexpected adventures. It is sometimes hard to navigate, will leave you uncertain of your parental capabilities, and will bring excitement at every turn. One thing is for sure- this life with your child will be full of surprises.
Your child will surprise you by eating more food than any toddler could possibly pack away, and less than a bird could survive on, depending upon the day of the week.
Your child will surprise you when he mimics the “F” word that you thought he didn’t hear when you stubbed your toe on his crib.
Your child will surprise you by eating a huge lunch after complaining of a belly ache and staying home from school.
Your child will surprise you by throwing up on his school desk after you send him to school with a belly ache, convinced that he was faking.
Your child will surprise you when he climbs out of his crib, creeps into your room unnoticed and decides that watching his parents in bed is a spectator sport.
Your child will surprise you when he swears his homework is done every night for a month and then brings home a warning of failure note from his teacher.
Your child will surprise you by bringing home a macaroni necklace and expecting you to wear it to church on Easter Sunday and Mother’s Day.
Your child will surprise you by his creativity when he draws on the walls with indelible marker, and scratches his initials into the top of the antique dresser in his room.
Your child will surprise you when he remembers your birthday with flowers he hand picked from the neighbor’s garden.
Your child will surprise you when you realize he is stronger, faster, smarter and more articulate than you are.
Your child will surprise you when he returns from borrowing your car and he’s left it clean, with a full tank of gas.
Your child will surprise you when you realize he is a man who puts the needs of others before his own, takes responsibility for his own destiny and cooks dinner not only for himself, but for you, too.
Your child will surprise you when he walks down the aisle of a church, or a college graduation, or stands at attention for a promotion, and you wonder when he grew to be so tall and handsome, and where the years went.
Congratulations, B & N.
…Thank you, Gabe